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... with an empty bar.
2 people! 3 sets each! really... not just a warmup apparently...
Then... the bigger guy loaded a 10k on one end and a 25lb on the other... put them on with collars, did a single rep and looked confused.
I don't care if no-one feels the need to either read or respond to this thread, I just need the therapy of getting it off my chest...